This is going to be one incredibly messy and long post but here we go
The Beginning
Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez last dated around 2017-2018. It was around that period of time that Justin was going through a very dark phase. He was addicted to several prescription/non prescription drugs and admitted to having an issue with substance abuse. He was questioning faith and was in a terrible place before he contacted Selena.
It was at this point of time that he had started to value his relationship with Selena. Justin would ask Selena repeatedly about if he was better than Abel (Selena Gomez's most recent ex at the time). He would repeatedly tell Selena about how he as terribly sorry for everything he had done in the past and that he was a different person now. He would tell her how grateful he was for her and how much he loved her.
Seemingly normal thing to do in a relationship. Except for when it started getting bad.
Justin was convinced that it was his relationship with Selena that would help him feel better. He thought it would "save" him. He loved the security of having a significant other who he trusted, someone that loved him. He wanted to take it to the next step, make it permanent and so he got the idea of marriage.
He would talk to Selena all day and night about settling down and getting married to a point where it freaked Selena out. (Reminder that this was a month or two after they had gotten together after breaking up years back when he cheated on her) She felt he was moving too fast and wanted to take things a little slow , considering their past.
Selena managed to talk him out of it a few times until he finally asked her to marry him in March 2018. Selena was shocked and scared to say the least. She obviously instantly turned him down. This was a post we made on 27 November 2020:
"They both spoke about life and everything" was basically when Justin told her his reasons and why he thought marriage would help in his problems.
Selena felt he was not ready for marriage and that he was rushing into it while still immature. She reportedly told a mutual friend of theirs that she felt a relationship was obviously not the way to fix anything and that she thought he was not ready. To make things more complicated, Selena got to know that Justin was still texting Hailey the entire time. He was still talking to her even after she had confronted him about it when they started dating. Hailey was still with Shawn at the time. Justin always wanted to keep all the options open and he loved to keep girls hung up on him. That is just the kind of person he was.
Selena ended up suggesting that they end things on good terms and see where it would lead them. They were not exactly breaking up, they were taking time apart from each other.
Selena genuinely did believe that her and Justin ended things on good terms. They maintained contact for a while too. However , Justin did not feel the same way. He was mad at her for not understanding him. According to sources:
He was mad at Selena for saying no even after he told her everything. He felt betrayed in a way.
Homegirl prolly sneezed and looked up to see him marrying another girl
When Hailey reached out, she approached as someone who wanted to be there for him. She filled in the part of Selena perfectly. She listened to him but most importantly, unlike Selena, she never spoke back or questioned anything he did. She just went along with everything.
With a lot of influence from external factors(Hailey's dad, Carl Lentz, Scooter Braun etc), Justin ended up convinced Hailey was the one and married her.
According to sources:
He wanted to hurt Selena. He wanted her to feel the way he did. He like wanted to show her that he was ready for a marriage
So , he married Hailey. That is it. These are the two main reasons he wanted to marry Hailey:
One, he was going through a lot and he thought that having a significant other would solve all his problems. He wanted someone to be there for him and someone to fix his problems. It didn't necessarily have to be Hailey. He would have gotten married to anyone in Hailey's place. However, since Hailey was the only woman ever who would willingly throw herself at an opportunity to be a rebound , he went for her.
Two , he wanted to prove Selena false. He wanted to show that he was ready for marriage. He wanted to hurt her. (Well, he did so.....:/)
If you do not believe us , it is understandable. So , here is Justin saying it himself:
Let's go back a little. A while into his marriage, Justin began to think about Selena and everything that happened. He realised that he had acted out a little too much and tried contacting her. However he couldn't because she had blocked him/changed her number. He then tried through their mutual friends only to find out she wanted nothing to do with him. When he heard about what she went through and how hurt she was, he began feeling guilty about it and constantly think about it. He would even tell Hailey about it which would annoy her deeply and cause fights. It got to a point where Hailey would put a GPS on Justin's phone so she could make sure he wasn't out to see Selena.
There is a reason Justin is constantly asking for forgiveness and talks about god forgiving him:
Justin might want to take a step back and think about why he feels so guilty even if god has forgiven him. Is it really god that he wants forgiveness from?
THE REALISATION
A few months into the relationship, Justin began seeing Hailey's true colors. He would see how she would say she didn't want attention on interviews and then have her team call the paparazzi everywhere they went. Obviously, he never said anything about it. Without Justin knowing, Hailey bullied his team into giving her and Maeve (Hailey's friend and stylist) his instagram account. Apparently , she went as far as threatening to fire them if they didn't give her his instagram access.
Justin heard about this from his team but chose not to do anything about it once again. Hailey and Maeve would constantly post pictures of Hailey with lovey dovey captions and even fans began to acknowledge it.
One time , Hailey posted a picture of herself on Justin's account and commented on the post with Justin's account because she forgot to switch to her account. She quickly deleted the comment but there is still proof (first two pictures).
Over the years , Justin has seen just how attention seeking Hailey can be so he always ignored it when she called the paparazzi or posted pictures on his accounts.
It was after his "lyme diagnosis" that things started going really south. Justin began having terrible breakouts and his skin condition was getting bad.
It was at this time that Hailey was marketing off of skin care. It was like a jackpot for her when his skin was breaking out and she began using his skin as a way to promote her skin care brand that was to come out soon.
One of the fights they had over this was when Hailey posted a picture of Justin thanking her on his story for making his skin clear. When in reality , it was just a selfie Justin took randomly. It wasn't even Hailey that helped with his skin. Justin and Hailey openly admitted to using accutane to make his skin better.
Hailey started bragging in every interview about how she helped Justin's skin and it annoyed Justin a lot and it would cause a lot of fights between them.
Throwback to when Hailey started talking about Justin's lyme disease to show how supportive she is on live and he snapped at her saying:
It's my lyme disease , it's not your lyme disease. They're asking me
Watch the video here : Click here
I mean , look at her. Girlie looks mortified. Her entire career flashed before her eyes.
The number of fights they had began increasing as Justin started seeing through Hailey more and more. He started flat out ignoring her at times and moved out for a short period of time. There were times when Hailey would stay somewhere else and Justin would stay at hotels.
There was a time in 2021 when Justin refused to take pictures with Hailey when they were a party and she began yelling at their guard. The poor dude was traumatised. It led to yet another huge fight which ended in Justin caving and posting about her.
Justin started finding it to be a literal burden being around her. So, he stopped talking to her and ignoring her just so it did not end up in a fight. This usually ended up with them making up a few weeks or sometimes months later.
In 2022, Justin got the biggest punch to his gut. He came out publicly with his Ramsay hunt diagnosis (hope he gets better) only for Hailey to market it once again. She used the attention he got from his diagnosis to promote her skin care brand that was coming out a few days later.
June 10 : Justin comes out with his diagnosis
June 11 : Hailey posts a picture of them together with a caption "Rhode launches in four days"
Justin was almost terrified of the extent Hailey would go to to promote herself even if it meant Justin being hurt. It wasn't over for him for though.
June 15: She started parading around talking about how Justin was doing and how she's grateful for him while promoting her brand Rhode.
June 17: Hailey partying without Justin at her launch event.
FIRST ENCOUNTER WITH DIVORCE
The part that all of you have been waiting for.
Around November 2020 their fights and her leeching off his diagnosis for attention got to him. He was constantly moving out and their fights would result in them not talking for days. Even when they were fighting, Hailey would continue to post old pictures of them together and this would cause the fight to escalate.
As a result, they decided to end the marriage. Actually, Justin wanted to end the marriage and for the less part , Hailey wanted to be out of the misery but ending her marriage meant ending her career and so her entire family was against it (especially her dad whose loans Justin payed off.
Here were the agreements made for their divorce in 2020:
Justin would go into hiding for a few months (like Taylor Swift did)
Hailey would tell everyone it was her choice to call things off
He would pay the prenup amount but Hailey would claim she didn't need it and did not get it.
Justin would come out of hiding with an album and talk about self healing.
They will talk about still loving and respecting each other.
Pretty solid huh? Nah , the agreement fell apart with Hailey's persuasion and they continued their marriage.
SECOND ENCOUNTER WITH DIVORCE
Their most recent decision was a discussion they had. Hailey told one of her friends that they were thinking about ending things when Justin's tour ends. However, Justin's diagnosis and Hailey's skin care being sold on his name really changed the plan. According to sources:
It seemed pretty serious this time. They were waiting for his tour to end so they could proceed with what and how to do it. It as in ending the marriage.
WHY ARE THEY STILL TOGETHER
However close they come to ending their marriage , there are certain factors that just stop them.
Even though Justin sees Hailey for the attention seeker she is , he still believes it was his marriage with Hailey that helped him through his hard times. He is still too in love with the idea of marriage to. Instead of valuing is wife and being in love with her, he values the idea of marriage and is in love with it.
Justin has spoken to his friends about how he is afraid of going back to how things were and how lonely it was before Selena and this is the biggest thing stopping him from ending the marriage. He truly believes the wedding made him a better person and that god forgives him because of it.
Hailey on the other hand has a lot of things going on for her. She leached off his name first , then off his lyme diagnosis , his ramsay hunt diagnosis etc. Hailey is nice to a person only when they are of use to her. That someone can even be her own husband. That is why she is out there partying and using their pictures to promote her brand while Justin suffering from his diagnosis at home.
Hailey will not let him go that easily. Her career is built on this.
POTENTIAL DIVORCE?
When will a potential divorce happen? As we already said , it was Justin's sudden diagnosis and the stop of his tour that put a stop to their earlier plans. Hailey already has a business built on his name that gives good money so you could say , she wouldn't need him anymore business wise. We cannot tell for sure because they are not currently talking about it. They are still promoting their relationship by hiring professional paparazzi.
Once the topic comes up again in the Jailey household , you lot will be the first to know.
Until then...
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